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Corrine's Corner
07/25/2008 -
July 2010
REAL FREEDOM
We are about to celebrate "Independence Day", the Fourth of July. It is the anniversary of the adoption of the Declaration of Independence on July 4, 1776. I thought my Independence Day was June 15, 1962, the day I turned 18. It was also the day I graduated from High School. I was "free". No more High School rules, and I was sure I didn't have to obey my parents anymore either. After all I was now an adult. I was free to vote, and free to drink beer legally 35 miles from my home. However, my drinking freedom lead to bondage. I didn't know what real freedom was.
I believe all of our problems flow from either being disconnected from Christ (spiritually dead - Ephesians 2:1-3 "And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others."); or continuing to live independently of Him (Ephesians 4:17-24). We need to recover life in Christ, and live as a new creation in Christ (Ephesians 2:4-10 & 4:20-24). This is the truth that will set us free.
We certainly need to understand how our problems or bondages develop. Reading Genesis 3 and Ephesians 2 will give examples of the power of the world, the flesh, and the devil in shaping our thinking and our behavior. Knowing what caused the problem or bondage, however, does not solve the problem or free us from bondage. We must seek the Lord for solutions and resolutions, so we may be free and walk in FREEDOM.
Freedom is found in believing the truth, not in obeying the law. It is found by winning the battle for your mind. I believe we have all been guilty at one time or another of looking in the wrong places for power, control, security and significance. Only God is omnipotent - all powerful; omniscient - all knowing; and omnipresent - everywhere all the time.
I wasn't "free" at 18. My Independence Day was the day I came before Christ with true brokenness and repented of my sins, asking Him to take control of my life, I hadn't done a very good job of it on my own. He continues to show me who I am in Christ; I am free of condemnation (Romans 8:1,2), I am His friend (Romans 5:1), I have been bought with the price of God's Son I am of infinite value to Him (1Corinthians 6:20), I have been redeemed and forgiven of all my sins (Colossians 1:14) and I am complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10). While I am not a finished product, I do walk in freedom not bondage.
By reading Colossians 3:5-11 you will find, as I have, keys to guard against falling back into bondage and continuing to experience REAL FREEDOM. Have a happy Independence Day!
June 2010
Welcome, Oscar!
Over a year ago my son, Larry, called to tell me that I was going to be a grandma again. I have two grandchildren, Jackson who just turned ten and Olivia soon to be eight. I was delighted to think of having another grandchild. He told me that this time they were going to adopt. Waiting nine months for a baby to arrive the normal way is hard enough, but this new addition to the family took over a year and a half of waiting. We found out in January that it was a boy and finally in April Larry and Jennifer went to Ethiopia to pick up Oscar. He had been abandoned by his mother, so there was no way to verify his age. The orphanage gave him a birth date of October 18th. He is now seven months old. My son’s family had gone to Ethiopia for two weeks during Christmas break and visited the orphanage they were working with, but Oscar had not arrived there yet. Larry and Jennifer wanted Jackson and Olivia to see the country that their new sibling was born in. It has been very exciting to finally have Oscar as part of our family. I am looking forward to seeing him in person in July when the family will be in Superior.
I have been thinking about adoption. I never knew my biological father. The only dad I ever had married my mom when I was two and he adopted me. He was a wonderful father. I never felt like I was not his child. He treated me the same as he did his son and daughter born to he and my mother. His sister also treated me equally. I realize that it is difficult for some people to accept a child that isn’t their biological offspring; if they feel they couldn’t love a child as their own they certainly should not adopt.
Romans 8:15 says “For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, Abba! Father!” Also in Ephesians 1:5 it is written, “He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will.” Adoption refers to the act of God that places the believer in His family. God has determined beforehand that those who believe in Christ will be adopted into His family and conformed to His Son, but it does not relieve man of his responsibility to believe the gospel in order to bring to pass personally God’s adoption plan. We must believe that Jesus died for our sins and rose again. We must ask Him to forgive our sins and give Him control of our life.
While I am glad I was adopted by my earthly father, I am even gladder to have been adopted by my Heavenly Father. I am still in the process of being conformed to His Son, but I know He loves me unconditionally. I am happy that little Oscar will be raised in a home where he will be loved and taught about the love of Jesus.
May 2010
IS EVERY SIN AN ADDICTION?
Tiger Woods and Jesse James (Sandra Bullock's husband) claim to have sexual addiction and are currently in treatment. There is much controversy in the media concerning this. Is there such a thing as sexual addiction? I believe there is. However, I also believe that "sexual addiction" can be used as an excuse for sin.
Another addiction that I hear of quite often is relationship addiction. Many people go from relationship to relationship without ever spending time alone getting to know themselves and more importantly God. Relationship addiction occurs when a person enmeshes self-identity with an unhealthy need for connection and relationship. Any relationship, not just a romantic one, has the capacity to cross the line. Addiction happens when it is less about love and more about fear; when it's less about whom the other person is and more about who you need the other person to be. This is not healthy relationship; it is addiction, and there are danger signs to watch for.
Gregory L. Jantz, in his article "Addicted to Love" gives these danger signs:
1. When you alone are not enough. (God made us to exist in relationship -- with Him and other people -- He also made us to have an essential relationship with self.)
2. When you seek a different person but the same relationship. (Relationship addicts tend to look for the same type of people, attempting to substitute a current relationship for a past one.)
3. When you see the person through the filter of your need. (At the core of relationship addiction is fear--fear of abandonment, inadequacy, and rejection. The fear overshadows reality.)
4. When you are convinced this person is the answer. (The addict does not understand that other people are not the answer to all of life's needs.)
5. When you experience intense relief within the relationship. (Relationships should bring a variety of experiences to both parties but, for the addict, the primary experience is one of relief. This is the relief from the panic and anxiety felt when out of a relationship.)
6. When intense energy, time, resources and thought are consumed to maintain the relationship. (For the addict, the relationship is everything. Therefore, nothing must be spared to maintain it. The addict will give up whatever is necessary--other relationships or priorities, money, time, personal preferences and goals.)
7. When anxiety is produced at even the thought of any difficulties within the relationship. (The addict is extraordinarily sensitive to any hint of problems in order to adjust and diffuse.)
8. When you intentionally cling to your need for the relationship refusing to accept any negative signs. (Relationship with such an addict is not usually very healthy. Healthy people eventually realize this and balk at the smothering.)
In Celebrate Recovery we urge people to spend time with the Lord and not seek another relationship if one has been lost by any addiction. I don't believe all sin is an addiction. Calling sin an addiction often gives the impression that we can never be free. The only way to break the cycle for the relationship addict or any other addict is to begin the slow path of recovery of self. This self-recovery is best done within the nurturing environment of God's love and acceptance. When the person can be brought back to an understanding of value and worth in God, apart from anyone else, victory can be won and healthy relationships can finally be formed.
April 2010
Justified Irritation Or Missed Opportunity
I love reading the comics. While humorous, the comic strips often give me food for thought. Such was the case in "For Better Or For Worse" by Lynn Johnston on the 23rd of March. The father is trying to read the paper, while his young son crawls up on his lap. The father asks, "What's your problem?" The boy replies, "There's nothing to do.” “You could go outside.” “There's nobody to play with.” “Call Lawrence.” “Nah.” “Go walk the dog.” “Nah." Now the father's voice rises as he yells "Well, for heaven's sake STOP BUGGING ME!!!" The boy leaves. Father gets convicted and opens the front door to find his son, sitting sadly on the step. He then thinks to himself, "sometimes, justified irritation is really a missed opportunity." How many opportunities do we miss by letting our anger get out of control?
In the Book of Numbers, chapter 20:7-13, we are reminded of God speaking to Moses and asking him to speak to the rock before the people and it would yield its water. But Moses was angry and he struck the rock rather than speaking to it as God had requested. His irritation caused him to miss an opportunity and he was not allowed to bring the people into the "Promised Land." It was too late; Moses couldn't take back his words. He had exploded in anger. Anger can be the most damaging of all emotions, causing people to say or do things they regret.
Out of control anger can ruin friendships and marriages and even cause nations to go to war. Some people end up living forever with the consequences of choices made in a moment of heated anger. If you struggle with destructive anger, you must find help to discover alternative ways to manage it. This begins by turning it over to God.
Some tips on what to do when you get angry: 1. Pray for the person that caused your anger. 2. Exercise strenuously for 20 minutes. 3. Take a hot shower or bath. 4. Breath in to the count of nine. Hold your breath for a count of nine and exhale to the count of nine. Repeat three times. 5. Memorize five Bible verses on anger and speak them out loud when angry. 6. Write down your feelings. 7. Take a 15 minute walk. 8. Take a pillow or punching bag to release destructive anger.
People around us want to see what happens when life pushes our buttons and anger puts the squeeze on our emotions. While God created us with emotions, it is our responsibility to control them rather than allowing them to control us.
March 2010
“THE LORD UNDERSTANDS”
I attended a funeral service yesterday; always a difficult time for family and friends. I also have a Celebrate Recovery attendee, who has become a friend, whom the doctors say is dying. Both of these gentlemen are my age. When I was young I believed that funerals were not necessary and a waste of money. However, I have learned through the years the need for the closure a funeral affords. It provides a place for people to comfort those left behind. Death comes to all (Romans 5:12-14). Many try to ignore death, not wanting to think about it. But whether we fear death or embrace it, expect it or not, death still occurs. When we lose a loved one we experience many emotions: fear, sorrow, anger, grief and a great sense of loss. The eleventh chapter of John tells us of the death of Lazarus. The fact that Jesus raised Lazarus back to life does not erase the reality of His compassion and sorrow. In John 11:35 we find the shortest verse in the Bible, “Jesus wept.” Jesus understands grief.
It is natural to feel sad and mourn the death of a loved one. We deeply miss the close relationship we had with that person. But in our times of sorrow, we can let Jesus hold us in His compassionate arms, knowing that He understands. What peace we have when we know that our loved one is with the Lord and will be for eternity. He tells us that no one who has really trusted in Jesus Christ for their salvation will be lost.
What about those who choose to take their life? I asked the Sunday school class I lead last week how many of them knew someone who has talked about taking their life. All hands, but one, went up. In these days, when life should be easier because of modern conveniences and supposedly allowing more time for recreation, we find the suicide rate has gone up, especially among young people. Most of the time those thinking about suicide do show verbal or behavioral warning signs; if we know the warning signs, we can help and provide support.
Should you be concerned about the possibility of suicide, experts recommend asking questions. Not mentioning suicide to someone who is upset or depressed because it will plant the idea in their mind is a myth. Many depressed people have already considered suicide as an option. It is often a relief to someone thinking of suicide to know that someone has noticed their pain. Dr. Paul Quinnett of “Question Persuade Refer” recommends asking questions such as: “Have you been unhappy lately? Have you ever been so unhappy that you wished you would never wake up? You know when people are as upset as you seem, sometimes they wish they were dead. I’m wondering if you are feeling that way too. The importance of connecting with your loved one or friend by listening and being supportive cannot be underestimated. If you know someone who is suicidal DO NOT leave them alone. Seek out professional help.
If YOU have had suicidal thoughts remember that Jesus understands what you are going through and He will show you a way out of your depression or anxiety if you seek His help. If, due to depression or anxiety, you have difficulty praying or reading your Bible, talk to someone; seek counsel. We all need help from time to time. May the Lord bless you and comfort you with His presence, knowing you are not alone and that He understands.
February 2010
I’m So Lonely
Christmas and New Year’s have just passed; I hope you enjoyed celebrating those holidays. I love going to church on Christmas Eve, it’s the highlight of the season for me. Due to the inclement weather there was no service. It may have been the only Christmas in my life that I did not attend a church service. Since I have no immediate family in the area, and could not get out to visit friends, I spent Christmas alone. I WAS NOT LONELY.
February brings a favorite holiday, Valentine’s Day. Being single and without family near by could make this a holiday to ignore, but I love the day. I WILL NOT BE LONELY. Women of Purpose will be holding their annual Valentine’s Day Dinner on Sunday, February 14th at 4:00 right here at Central Assembly. This dinner is for women over forty who are single, separated, divorced or widowed. If the past dinners are any example, this should be a wonderful way to celebrate. We will be reminded of God’s love for each of us as we enjoy food, fun and fellowship.
I seldom feel lonely, but I know for many, the feeling of loneliness is very real. God reminds His people that in their loneliness and inadequacy they need not fear or be dismayed; Why? Because He is their God and because He is with them, holding them in His “righteous right hand” (Isaiah 41:10). Everyone feels lonely at times, even if you are not living alone. Sometimes, loneliness can become so desperate that it causes fearfulness. That fear can draw the lonely person’s attention away from God. God promises that He will always hold His people close to Him. We are reminded of that fact in Hebrews 13:5, when he says “I will NEVER leave you nor forsake you.”
Lonely people must remember that Jesus called them His friends. “No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you” (John 15:15). With Jesus, you are never alone, “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you” (John 14:26).
Feelings of loneliness can be helped. Lonely people can attend church (Hebrews 10:25); be a friend to someone else, “A man who has friends must himself be friendly” (Proverbs 18:24); listen to Christian music, we are so blessed to have several Christian radio stations if they don’t have tapes or CDs of their own; and pray for God to work in and through them to take away lonely feelings.
If Satan attacks you into that, “I’m so lonely” feeling, remind him you are not alone. Happy Valentine’s Day! “God is love” (1 John 4:8).
January 2010
"THE HEART OF THE FATHER"
Parents have such an influence on our lives, positive and negative. Our fathers often serve as a model for what God, our heavenly Father, is like. Perhaps your father was a negative example; angry, controlling, unapproachable, physically, verbally or sexually abusive. Maybe he was a good example; loving, gentle, kind, caring and protective. Whether they were positive or negative examples, our fathers were or are only human. The Lord is perfect, super-natural, available 24/7. What is the Heart of our Heavenly Father like?
I believe the Bible shows us what kind of Father He is. Three of the characteristics of the heart of the Father are: compassion, peace and love. He is compassionate as indicated in Romans 9:15, "For He says to Moses, 'I will have mercy on whomever I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whomever I will have compassion.'" David tells us in Psalm 86:15 about His compassion, "But You, O Lord, are a God full of compassion, and gracious, longsuffering and abundant in mercy and truth." Jesus had the heart of His Father and showed His compassion while here on Earth in so many ways. Matthew 9:36 records one such incident, "But when He saw the multitudes, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were weary and scattered, like sheep having no shepherd."
God also has a heart of peace. The Old Testament is filled with times of battle, and you might think of God as a God of war rather than peace. However, He gives us His peace in times of trouble, heartache and fear. Philippians 4:7 describes His peace, "and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard you hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." There really is no way to describe His peace, but it is indeed wonderful.
And God has a heart of love. 1 John 4:8 simply says, "God is love". In Romans 5:5 we can experience the love of God in our hearts, "...the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." We have just finished celebrating the birth of Christ. We were reminded of why He was born. John 3:16, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." That is truly a Heart of Love.
The scriptures tell us to purify our hearts, and to praise Him with our whole heart. If we call ourselves Christians we are to be conformed to the image of Christ. Ezekiel 18:31, "Cast away from you all the transgressions which you have committed and get yourselves a new heart..." God's heart is unchanging. To unite your heart means He wants us to have an undivided heart, wholly fixed on Him. A perfect heart is a sincere heart that loves God alone and is true to Him.
Are you affecting anyone's life for Him? Do you feel you are being formed in the image of Christ? May 2010 be a year when you remember the Heart of God, affect lives for Him and become more Christ-like. I know that's my prayer. HAPPY NEW YEAR!
December 2009
THE TIME HAS COME
When we read "The Christmas Story" we read from the book of Luke. In the first chapter Elizabeth, Mary's cousin, says "Blessed is she who believed for there will be a fulfillment of those things which were told her from the Lord." God spoke to Mary through an angel, but she knew it was God. She knew that her baby was to be the Son of God. Luke 2:6, "So it was, that while they were there, the days were completed for her to be delivered." The time had come, God's perfect timing for the birth of Christ. We may pray asking for a particular blessing and expect the answer to come our way and in our time. However, God has a perfect plan and the answer comes His way in His time. What did that birth mean to mankind?
Jesus came to save us from eternity in Hell, to forgive our sins and give us the assurance of a home in Heaven with Him for all eternity. He came to die, to shed His blood for us, to pay the price for our sins. All we need do is believe He is the Messiah, the promised Savior, ask Him to forgive our sins and give us a new life. But there is more, He is coming again. Revelation 1:3, "Blessed is he who reads and those who hear the words of this prophecy, and keep those things which are written in it; for the time is near." In the book of Revelation God tells us, how He is going to complete His great work and usher in His eternal kingdom. Any believer may read and profit from the message. Revelation 1:7, "Behold, He is coming with clouds, and every eye will see Him, even they who pierced Him. And all the tribes of the Earth will mourn because of Him." The overriding theme is the return of Jesus Christ to defeat all evil and to establish His reign. It is definitely a book of victory and His people are seen as overcomers.
Warren Wiersby says "Jesus explained who He is and what kind of kingdom belonged to Him. Pilate (who ordered his crucifixion) probably did not grasp the significance of these profound words, but we today can discern some of the meaning Jesus had in mind. He was "born", which indicates His humanity, but he also "came into the world" which indicates His deity and the fact that Jesus existed before His birth at Bethlehem, this is an important and repeated truth in John's Gospel (John 1:9-11,19; 9:39; 10:36; 12:46; 16:28 & 17:18).
Jesus not only told Pilate of His origin; He also explained His ministry; to bear witness unto the truth. He spoke the truth of God's Word, and all who were His people would respond to His call.
In Jesus' time the sheepfold was usually an enclosure made of rocks, with an opening for the door. The shepherd would guard the flock, or flocks, at night by lying across the opening. It was not unusual for several flocks to be sheltered together in the same fold. In the morning, the shepherds would come, call their sheep, and assemble their own flocks. Each sheep recognized his own master's voice. John 10:4, Jesus is speaking "And when he brings his own sheep, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice." John 18:37, "...Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice."
I believe the time has come for us to make sure we are hearing His voice and not the voice of Satan or our own voice. I believe we are in the last days and that God wants to give us daily direction for our lives so that we can continue to walk with Him daily and help others to come to know Jesus in a personal way.
I pray you will have a Merry Christmas and ask God to give you the gift of discernment, so that you might hear His voice.
November 2009
Just Say "Yes"
When I talk to people who are lonely, discouraged or depressed, I feel as though I keep giving the same advise, over and over. I believe the advise is often not taken because it seems too easy. When we first became a Christian we may have struggled with the simplicity of the conversion experience. We didn't have to earn our salvation, there was no working for it. We merely had to repent of the sin in our life, believe Jesus died on the cross for that sin, ask Him to forgive us and accept the free gift of eternal life with Him. Living the Christian life however, does require something; reading His Word and mediating on it, spending time in prayer, obeying His commands and trusting Him to meet all of our needs. Coping with loneliness, discouragement or bouts of depression can be dealt with by just saying, “YES.” Too simple, you say. Let me explain.
John Baker, the author of the Celebrate Recovery Leader's Guide, uses Y E S as acrostic to show a cure for periods of discontent.
Principle 8 in Celebrate Recovery says, "Yield myself to God to be used to bring the Good News to others, both by my example and by my words." The Great Commission found in Matthew 28:19 applies to ALL believers, we are ALL to share the "Good News". We need to present everything we have--our time, talents, and treasures--to Him. All that we have comes from Him. When we yield to Him, God can use us as His instruments to carry the message to others in word and action.
Our example is important. Our walk needs to match our talk. Rick Warren has said, "If you want someone to see what Christ will do for them, let them see what Christ has done for you." Ask yourself: Does my lifestyle reflect what I believe?
We need to serve others as Jesus did. John 13:14-15, "And since I, the Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other's feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you." You can say YES to God in many ways. You can visit a shut-in or call to encourage someone if you are a shut-in yourself. You can volunteer to help with a ministry at church, there is a need right now for children's workers. Ask the Lord to show you where you can be used.
There are two kinds of people; givers and takers. The takers eat well and the givers sleep well. Be a giver; it will free you from depression, loneliness and discouragement, I guarantee you. Just say, “YES” to what Jesus has equipped you to do.
October 2009
"LUNCH WITH BECKY"
One of the many blessings I received when I was Youth Director here at Central Assembly was to meet and have a relationship with Becky Beckwell. Some of you reading this will remember that Becky was involved in a snowmobile accident eleven years ago, which almost took her life. She was fifteen years old at the time, an honor student, volleyball player and active member of our youth group. She was in a coma for a long time and leading a "normal" life was not likely. With the Lord's healing power she beat the odds and not only survived, but became a walking testimony of His love and mercy. She lost the sight in one eye and only has 15% vision in the other eye. Her short term memory is weak. She graduated from Superior High School and is currently taking classes at WITC. In spite of her losses she is enthusiastic, optimistic, joyful and on fire for Jesus. It is impossible to spend time with her and not feel built up and encouraged. She is a real cure for anxiety and depression.
I talk to many people who suffer with depression and anxiety due to stress in their lives. Stress is what you feel when you have to handle more than you are used to. Some stress is normal and even useful. Stress can help if you need to work hard or react quickly. For example, it can help you win a race or finish an important job on time. But if stress happens too often or lasts too long it can have bad effects. It can be linked to headaches, an upset stomach, back pain, and trouble sleeping. It can weaken your immune system making it harder to fight off disease. It can lead to depression.
So, if you can't have lunch with Becky Beckwell you may try some of the following ways to keep stress and anxiety under control in difficult times:
1. FOCUS ON RIGHT NOW. Worries about the past or the future can undermine your attempt to accomplish anything in the present. Concentrate on what you can do right now, and do it.
2. IDENTIFY YOUR FEARS. Sort out your feelings so you know exactly what you're worried about. It can help to write about the things that are bothering you. Talk, laugh, cry and express anger when you need to with someone you trust.
3. LOOK FOR POSITIVE ENERGY. Don't hang out with people whose anger or depression spills over onto you--find friends who support you and offer encouragement.
4. EXERCISE. Regular exercise is one of the best ways to manage stress. Walking is a great way to get started.
5. MOST IMPORTANTLY; TURN IT OVER TO THE LORD. That's what Becky did.
Becky had serious trials and still does; but Jesus had even bigger ones. He experienced poverty, homelessness, criticism, rejection, betrayal by a friend, temptation and a need to be alone. He was falsely accused, beaten and humiliated. He never doubted His father's love. He never threw up His hands and called it quits. Isaiah 45:3 says, "And I will give you the treasures of darkness and hidden wealth of secret places, in order that you may know that it is I, the Lord...who calls you by your name."
Philippians 4:6 "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God."
Proverbs 12:25 "Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression. But a good word makes it glad."
September 2009
Our Words Can Hurt
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me." You may have said those words as a child as I did. However, there is no truth in that statement. Physical hurt, for the most part, can be healed; but the words said in anger leave lasting scars. The scars can only be erased by the "Love of the Lord".
Numbers 20:7-13 (see below) tells the account of Moses' outbreak of anger. Like us, he was human. He was probably weary as he drew near to the end of the wilderness march, during which he had seen nothing but unbelief. Rather than speaking to the rock, as the Lord had told him to do, he struck it twice. He also spoke angrily to the people, calling them rebels. It was too late, Moses couldn't take it back. He had exploded in anger, so God punished him. Anger can be the most damaging of all emotions, causing people to say or do things they regret. Out-of-control anger can ruin friendships and marriages and even cause nations to go to war. Some people end up living forever with the consequences of choices made in a moment of heated anger. If anger is a problem for you, begin by turning it over to God.
Celebrate Recovery is not for alcohol and drug issues only. It deals with all hurts, habits and hang ups. Losing your temper may be a habit, a habit you wish to break. Let the Lord help you. Celebrate Recovery may be a vehicle for you to work out this problem or help you deal with someone who has been verbally abusive to you. Ask the Lord for His help, there is victory awaiting you.
“And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying, Take the rod, and gather thou the assembly together, thou, and Aaron thy brother, and speak ye unto the rock before their eyes; and it shall give forth his water, and thou shalt bring forth to them water out of the rock: so thou shalt give the congregation and their beasts drink. And Moses took the rod from before the Lord, as he commanded him. And Moses and Aaron gathered the congregation together before the rock, and he said unto them, Hear now, ye rebels; must we fetch you water out of this rock? And Moses lifted up his hand, and with his rod he smote the rock twice: and the water came out abundantly, and the congregation drank, and their beasts also. And the Lord spake unto Moses and Aaron, Because ye believed me not, to sanctify me in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore ye shall not bring this congregation into the land which I have given them. This is the water of Meribah; because the children of Israel strove with the Lord, and he was sanctified in them.” (Numbers 20:7-13)
August 2009
WE HAVE A PLACE FOR YOU - AND WE NEED YOU
Thorndike-Barnhart's dictionary defines community as "the people of any district or town; a group of people living together; ownership together; sharing together." The community of Superior is made up of many places which allow people to live together and share together. There are schools, parks, restaurants; theaters and churches to name some. The church is more than just a building for public Christian worship. I believe the church should be a place where people can find a sense of purpose and belonging; a place where you can grow in your relationship to God and be encouraged in times difficulty.
Central Assembly desires to be that kind of church. We desire to reach out to those who are hurting and perhaps in bondage to addiction, or have loved ones who are, through a ministry called Celebrate Recovery.
At Central Assembly we welcome those who may be lonely and without family by providing activities where they can get to know others. We provide a safe place for children to play and learn with other children. We provide youth activities and camps for children of all ages all the way through high school. Perhaps you have been a part of Central Assembly for sometime and have found relationships and comfort here, but have still not seen how you could be used to help others. God has given each of us gifts and talents and He wants us to use them for His glory. You are unique, there is no one else like you. There are many ways your gifts and talents can be used; just take Celebrate Recovery for example. We are in need for people to prepare and serve our Friday meal, to make desserts, to provide child care, to encourage those who are struggling, and to share your success stories to provide a sense of hope.
Maybe you have been hurt by "church" in the past, or see it as a place to attend on Christmas and Easter only, a place to get married and buried. It is so much more. The "church" is made up of people like you and me and you could get hurt again; we are not perfect people. However, the risk is well worth it. At Central Assembly we desire to reach out to our community, we have a place for you, and we need you and your special gifts. "Walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love." Ephesians 4:1,2
Whether you have never been to Central Assembly or if you haven't been here for a while, come and bring a friend. We want you to find a place here … a place of belonging.
July 2009
Tolerate Anything?
I'm writing this while on vacation. When I am home I don't have much time for TV, but I have been watching more since I have not been working. I continue to be amazed at what in considered "family viewing", even many commercials should be rated "R" in my opinion. I am reminded of Judges 21:25, "In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes." The Israelites had no king and no commitment to God. Thus they did whatever seemed right in their own eyes. When people remove God from life, they are left with no guidelines other than what they think is right. Our culture today says we must be tolerant of everything--even blatant sin. Israel's tolerance of sin turned them away from God. I believe we, as Christians, should be tolerant of different viewpoints, but should not condone beliefs or practices that would lead away from God's standards. We must be completely intolerant of sin and remove it from our lives. Because of the changing standards, many people find it difficult to believe that God's standards don't change.
I was reminded, once again, of Josh McDowell's comments on tolerance. "On the surface, the word 'tolerance' appears as a benign manner of getting along with people who are different. 'What's true for you is true for you. No problem.' The seemingly innocent idea of tolerance has become the cardinal virtue, the sole absolute, of society. Children hear it preached every day in school and in the media. Yet few people understand what society really means by tolerance, nor do they realize that it is the central doctrine of an entire cultural movement. As a result, few recognize the threat it poses to their children, their churches, and their faith. The traditional definition of tolerance means simply to recognize and respect other's beliefs and practices without necessarily agreeing or sympathizing with them. This attitude, that everyone has a right to their own opinion, is what tolerance means to most people. But today's definition is vastly different. This new tolerance considers every individual's beliefs, values, lifestyle, and truth claims as equally valid. Not only do people have an equal right to their beliefs, but all beliefs are equal. The new tolerance goes beyond respecting a person's rights; it demands praise and endorsement of that person's beliefs, values, and lifestyle."
We must read the Word to know God's nature, and we will realize that His nature never changes. We must be prepared at all times to share what we know to be true. The Bible warns us in several places of what will happen in end times. Take time to read Jude 3, 4; 2 Peter 2:12-22 and 2 Timothy 3:1-9; these are just a few scriptures that confirm what the media is addressing today. Jesus can keep us from stumbling and falling if we remain faithful to Him. 2 Timothy 4:2 "Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching." We must know what we believe. If you have not attended Pastor Tom's Sunday School class on the "16 Fundamental Truths" I suggest you do. "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes..." Romans 1:16 I believe we are also called to help young people have a firm foundation in this world today.
June 2009
Change Can Be A Good Thing
June is supposed to usher in summer. In Superior that’s questionable. However, it will be summer regardless of the temperature. Like many of you, I am planning my vacation. My son and his family will be coming home from Japan for eight weeks, half of which will be spent with me. I am looking forward to our time together. This year they are flying in to Chicago rather than Minneapolis, so our usual trip to Milwaukee and Green Bay will be in June this year rather than later in the summer. We visit my brother and his family and my brother-in-law and his family. My brother and sister’s grandchildren are close in age to my grandchildren and we have a wonderful time together. We have a family tradition of attending a Brewer’s game; last year there were eighteen of us. Kayli, my brother’s oldest grandchild has been attending for four years; she will be ten in July. She is the one who has called the Brewer’s game a tradition and looks forward to it all year.
Webster’s Dictionary gives the definition of tradition as, “a long established custom that has the effect of an unwritten law.” Traditions, however, are subject to change. Change is defined as “To alter, vary.” We have added more of the younger children to our ballgame outing, a positive change. We have also lost some of our attendees; my sister, who went to be with the Lord and my Uncle and Aunt who can no longer handle the trip, negative change.
Another definition for change is “Something of the same kind, but NEW or FRESH.” Our church is going through a change. Paul Anderson was our lead pastor for eighteen years. His leadership became a tradition of sorts. We are awaiting a change in leadership and with it will come positive and negative differences. The negative differences may come from our resistance to change. We must be open to what the Lord wants to do here at Central Assembly; things that will not only help change us but equip us to bring positive change to the Twin Ports. “Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain NEW strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not get tired. They will walk and not become weary” (Isaiah 40:31). I believe we will be challenged to exchange our strength for His.
I feel blessed to have been under the leadership of Pastor Anderson all these years, I learned much and was changed much. I don’t know what my future will be with a new leader, but I welcome the opportunity to grow and stretch and continue to “…press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14).
I hope you establish traditions with your family and friends this summer, and adjust to the changes that will come. Enjoy your summer, make the most of the season. Ask the Lord where you fit in to the changes taking place here at Central Assembly.
Change can be a good thing.
May 2009
Paul and Barnabas
No, I am not going to talk about the Apostle Paul and his missionary journey with Barnabas. I want to share some of my fond memories of Pastor Paul and how I relate him to Barnabas (Son of Encouragement). Barnabas was an encourager; you can read about him in the book of Acts, especially chapter 11, verses 22-25, which speaks of his encouraging others. Pastor Paul was an encourager to me so many times.
I had applied for the position of Youth Director when Pastor David Rose was here, but a decision would not be made until the new pastor was to come. I expected the new pastor to bring his own youth pastor, so I felt my role would be to support that person and continue to work with the youth where needed. However, when Pastor Paul Anderson was hired, he did not bring a youth pastor with him. He did bring a wife and two youth group age children. He interviewed me and talked to the young people in our church. To my delight and surprise I was hired. I had been working with youth since 1976, as a volunteer, and the Lord had given me a heart for them. I was 47 years old, single with a son and I had leukemia; not strong points on a resume. But, Paul had sought the Lord and felt I was the person to fill the role of Director of Youth.
Now comes Barnabas. Pastor Paul was a Barnabas; always encouraging me. He also allowed me to minister and did not control the youth department. It taught me to allow my sponsors to minister in their giftings and not control their area of ministry. God blessed the youth department. I was on a committee of ten for the State of Wisconsin and upper Michigan for several years so I was able to build relationships with many young youth pastors. Every time I came back from a meeting in Waupaca I felt blessed once again for a lead pastor that gave me freedom and encouragement. That was not the case for the other youth pastors I had talked to.
Early in my ministry, Paul and I would attend monthly meetings of the Evangelical Pastors Fellowship in Superior. New officers were to be elected for the next term. Paul nominated me for president (the only one not a pastor) and I was elected. I held that position for two terms with constant encouragement from Paul. He saw in me more than I saw and encouraged me to “go for it”.
When the Lord showed him the need for a full time Christian Counselor, once again Paul sought the Lord. I was happy in youth ministry, but shortly after Paul asking me if I would be interested in changing positions, I felt the Lord’s leading. He has again allowed me to minister and has been a source of encouragement. He helped me to see that being a certified minister in the Assemblies of God would be an asset to me and allowed me to take time to study and complete my certification.
Celebrate Recovery was something I was very interested in and when I presented the idea to him, I was encouraged to “go for it”. He not only supported the ministry but he and Ilene became part of it as they cooked and served food regularly. He supported me in my mission journeys also.
He has been an encouragement during personal difficulties. My times of illness and the death of my mother and sister were such times. He was in the hospital with me, sat in the nursing home as my mother breathed her last breath, and dove to Trego to commit my sister’s body to the ground. He has been there for me and my family.
We have had good times together, I have many fond memories. He was there when my son graduated from North Central and there when Larry and Jennifer were married; co-officiating with Jennifer’s father at their wedding. I will miss Barnabas; I mean Paul and his family. However, I am grateful for the impact he has had on my life. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family. Love, Corrine.
April 2009
Die to Self
Maybe you can recall, as I can, being taught the "Golden Rule". "Do onto others as you would have them do onto you." I learned this in school as a young girl. It wasn't until later in my life that I discovered it in the Bible. Luke 6:31 reads, "And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise." If we would only live by this Scripture daily. We can easily get caught up in our own needs and not see or meet the needs of others.
I recently spoke with someone who spends time and money keeping up with what family members and friends do and have. If someone spends time at the gym, he spends more time. If a friend purchases a new car, he buys a better one. If a loved one is hurt or depressed, he is only concerned about how it affects him. We can all get so consumed with our own hurts and needs that we forget about others and focus solely on self. James 3:16, "For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there." Proverbs 14:16 says that someone who is self-confident is a fool.
I had the honor of conducting the funeral for Patty Engstrom on March 27th. Her favorite Bible passage was John 3:16. "For God so loved the world that He have His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." God created and loves us, but sin separates us from Him. For us to be saved sin had to be removed, its penalty had to be paid. Because of Jesus' death and resurrection, God offers salvation to all. Being self-seeking and putting ourselves ahead of others is a sin.
As I was preparing for the funeral, I continued to read on in the third chapter of John. I read on to verse thirty, "He must increase, but I must decrease". John the Baptist was completely sold out for Jesus. He denied himself in order to see to it that people's hearts were prepared for the coming Messiah. When the time came for Christ to begin His ministry, John willingly stepped aside, sending his own followers to follow Him. Dying to self is not a refusal to enjoy life or have fulfillment. When we put the Lord first and then the needs of others, He will give us greater opportunities to serve Him, which will bring us greater joy. By dying to self and putting others needs ahead of ours, we can point people to Jesus.
March 2009
“Do You Need An Attitude Adjustment?"
Our attitudes reflect our perspective on life. Attitudes are formed in the mind and every attitude begins with a choice - a choice to look at the world a certain way. Therefore, we CAN change our attitudes. We, as Christians, must not be "conformed to this world"; allowing the world's outlook to rule us, entice us and decide our attitude. Instead Paul says, as recorded in Romans 12:2 "...be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will." I don't know about you, but I want to know what God's will for my life is.
With a transformed mind, we can allow God to help us choose attitudes that are honoring to Him. He helps us to stay positive in ANY situation as we see His plan unfold. This applies to the negative reports we see and hear daily on TV and radio. The moral decline in our society and current economic concerns are no surprise to God.
Those who struggle with negative attitudes must renew their mind and choose attitudes that honor and reveal God's work in their lives. God's Word is the best place to start. Both the Old and New Testament have many scriptures that tell us of the importance of being in the Word. "Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:8,9). "...and how from infancy you have known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work." (2 Timothy 3:15-17) We learn from His Word some requirements that are in His will which apply to ALL believers:
1. Obey and honor parents. (Eph. 6:1,2)
2. Marry only another Christian. (2 Cor. 6:14)
3. Support your family. (1 Tim. 5:8)
4. Raise your children by God's standards. (Eph. 6:4)
5. Meditate on the Scriptures. (Ps. 1:2)
6. Pray. (1 Thes. 5:17)
7. Assemble for worship. (Heb. 10:25)
8. Proclaim Christ. (Acts 1:8)
9. Display love. (1 Cor. 13)
God's leading in our lives generally follows basic principles that can help us in deciding His will for our lives:
1. The written Word (Ps. 119:105)
2. The prompting of the Holy Spirit (Phil. 2:13)
3. The counsel of wise, trustworthy people (Prov. 11:14)
4. An inner assurance of peace (Col. 3:15)
Do you need an attitude check or an attitude change? If so, ask the Lord to help you change so that you will know His will for you.
February 2009
“I Can Do It Myself”
“I can do it myself.” I can be heard saying that with anger in my voice more often than I care to admit. I am somewhat limited physically. I know that people are just trying to help when they offer me assistance. However, I still want to do as much by myself as possible. I have a handicap sign hanging in my van which allows me some independence as I can park closer to grocery stores, movie theatres, restaurants, and the Duluth Clinic. There are still many things I cannot do without help.
I believe the Lord showed me that the root of my wanting to be soooo independent is PRIDE. In the fifth chapter of Daniel we read about Belshazzar who was a descendant of King Nebuchadnezzar. He was brought down because of his pride; he was arrogant and had not learned to humble himself. When things are going well we are tempted to feel that we don’t need anyone. There needs to be a balance between pride and confidence. Being positive and having confidence is necessary for success; but being overly confident can lead to pride. God does want us to have a good self-image, but not to be proud.
There is much written in the Bible about pride. Deuteronomy 8:11-20 cautions us to be careful when times are good, not to become prideful and forget what God has done for us. “Pride ends in humiliation, while humility brings honor.” (Proverbs 29:23) Humility is confidence properly placed in God. Philippians 3:3 tells us “We are to put no confidence in human effort. Instead, we boast about what Christ Jesus has done for us.”
When people try to help and support me they are being used by God to bless me. When I turn down the help offered, I am robbing someone of a blessing as well as robbing myself. Scriptures that I am very familiar with and often quote to others are “Be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might.” (Ephesians 6:10); & “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-7).
Maybe you aren’t prideful by always wanting to do things by yourself, as I have been. Perhaps you may need help with a problem but feel because you are a Christian you can’t ask anyone for counsel or advice. The Lord has placed people in our lives that are there to encourage us and share our burdens; people willing to pray with us in agreement. We need each other. Don’t allow PRIDE to rob you of a blessing.
January 2009
CHANGE IS A GOOD THING
Something I can be heard saying almost daily is, "Every day's an adventure." I believe it is true that each day brings with it an opportunity for an adventure. As I get older however, I realize that each day can also bring with it challenges. In my case, challenges having to do with changes in my physical health. For most of us accepting change is not easy. Often when we think of beginning a new year we think of changes that we would like to make. Maybe the change could be giving up a bad habit, dieting or exercising for better health. Those changes, if actually followed through on, would bring positive change.
Some changes are not so positive; not being able to do the things you used to do; wearing glasses for the first time; having to take medication; retirement; adjusting to the death of a family member or friend; moving to an apartment from a house; or an unexpected job change. We must remember that our changes are no surprise to God. We need to trust in the Lord and take change in stride with His help. The changes we go through can and will aid us in helping others adjust to change.
When we accepted Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we were changed. "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has gone, the new has come" (2 Corinthians 5:17). I'm certainly glad the Lord has changed me from what I was, even though I have more changes that need to be made. "Listen, I tell you a mystery. We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed - in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed" (1 Corinthians 15:51-52). Some will be alive when Christ returns, but we will all be changed. We need to anticipate Christ's return.
So, let the Lord show you the positive things that can come from everyday change and help you adjust to those changes. And look forward to the "Big Change" when Jesus Christ will return. May 2009 be your best year yet.
December 2008
Wonderful Gifts
In my devotional reading earlier today, I was reading l Kings, the third chapter. Verses 1-14 tell of God’s conversation with Solomon (David’s son) shortly after he had become King. Verse 5,God says, “Ask what you wish me to give you.” Verse 9 states Solomon’s reply, “So give Your servant an understanding heart to judge Your people, to discern between good and evil.” Verse 12, “I have done according to your words. Behold, I have given you a wise and discerning heart.” God was pleased that he hadn’t asked for riches, fame, a long life or the destruction of his enemies, so He not only gave Solomon the gift of wisdom and a discerning heart, but riches, fame and a long life as well.
Wisdom goes beyond mere intellect and knowledge. It encompasses a God-given ability to perceive people and situations with spiritual clarity. God’s wisdom is putting His mind into our mind, making discernment possible on the level of human relationships. With God’s wisdom, we can know His plans and purposes.
I have found that God usually follows a gift with the opportunity to use it, that way we will know that the power we have been given is from Him. I believe all God’s gifts are for ministry, not just for our own private enjoyment. God allowed Solomon to use his wisdom to make wise judgments and write books, such as the book of Proverbs; still relevant today. We don’t need to wander aimlessly through life. Our purpose is to know and do God’s will.
Luke 11:31 tells us that Christ’s wisdom is greater than that of Solomon. When we receive Christ we receive wisdom. However, wisdom grows in us as we grow in Christ. When we think of Christmas, we seem to think of gifts. To me the gift of wisdom and discernment is a wonderful gift. If we feel we need more wisdom, we need just ask. “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him” (James 1:5). “For the Lord gives wisdom, from His mouth come knowledge and understanding” (Proverbs 2:6). “My son give attention to my wisdom, incline your ear to my understanding” (Proverbs 5:1).
This Christmas let us remember the greatest gift ever given. “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life” (John 3:16). Eternal Life and Wisdom, what wonderful gifts.
November 2008
Tack So Micket
When I was a little girl I lived with my grandparents until I was five years old. After I moved to my parent’s home, I went back to my grandparent’s every summer until I graduated from high school. My grandparents were Scandinavian. My grandfather came to America when he was nineteen and was very proud of being an American citizen. While my grandmother could also speak Swedish very well, they would seldom speak Swedish in front of their children or grandchildren. There was an exception, we would say a table prayer in Swedish and if you did something that they appreciated they would say “Tack so micket”, which meant thank you so much.
As I thought of the coming holiday, Thanksgiving, I was reminded of my days with my grandparents, and how much they influenced my life. I believe it was my grandmother’s prayers that brought me to the place where I cried out to the Lord for forgiveness and He saved me from my sins. I have so much to be thankful for, but knowing that the Lord has prepared a place for me in Heaven, that my sins are forgiven, and that I will spend eternity with Him is what I am most thankful for. I found it interesting that in Webster’s New World Dictionary the definition of thanksgiving (not the holiday, but the word itself) is “a formal expression of thanks to God.” And the word thanks is “an expression of gratitude.”
We can always look at the “glass half empty” and see what we don’t have, rather than looking at the blessings God has given us. For example, as I write this it is the second anniversary of my sister’s death. That could be deemed as only negative, I no longer have her in my life on a daily basis. The positive of that is knowing she is with Him and is no longer suffering. Her husband, daughter and daughter’s family are closer to God, and I am very thankful for all the years I did have with her. I could get discouraged about my son, daughter-in-law and grandkids living in Japan. It’s a long way from here. I don’t get to celebrate birthdays with them, or attend their ballgames or recitals. However, they all love Jesus, are growing in their walk with Him and communicate with me weekly. I also have been to Germany and Japan to visit them, countries I might otherwise never have traveled to. I am so blessed, and so thankful.
I need, as we all do, to focus on Him and His blessings. Psalm 95:2 “Let us come before His presence with Thanksgiving…” Psalm 100:4 “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.”
Of all the things God has done for me and given me, the most valuable was sending His Son to die for my sins. I didn’t have to do anything to earn my salvation, I just needed to repent of my sins and ask Him to forgive me. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).“For the Lord is good, His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations” (Psalm 100:5). So I am thankful, so thankful and I hope you are as well. “Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift” (2 Corinthians 9:15).
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
October 2008
Overcoming Fear
Fear is so disabling, it keeps you from becoming who God created you to be. I would like to share with you some thoughts on fear by Neil Anderson, taken from "The Steps to Freedom in Christ".
"Fear is a God-given natural response when our physical or psychological safety is threatened. Courage is not the absence of fear, but it is living by faith and doing what is right in the face of illegitimate fear objects. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom and the only fear that can overcome all other fears. Irrational fears compel us to live irresponsible lives or prevent us from doing that which is responsible and from being good witnesses. Behind every irrational fear is a lie that must be identified."
A prayer that Dr. Anderson suggests to help with identifying your fears and the roots causing them is as follows: "Dear Heavenly Father, I confess that I have allowed fear to control me and that lack of faith is sin. Thank You for Your forgiveness. I recognize that You have not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. (see 2 Timothy 1:7) I renounce any spirit of fear operating in my life and ask You to reveal any and all controlling fears in my life and the lies behind them. I desire to live by faith in You and in the power of the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen"
I used to think that printed prayers had little if any effect, I thought all prayer had to come spontaneously. However, the Lord has humbled me in that area, as I have watched time and time again printed, anointed prayers being answered.
So what is your fear? Is it fear of: death, embarrassment, failure, disapproval, marriage, divorce, pain, financial problems, the future, death of a loved one, losing your salvation, or being a hopeless case. Perhaps you fear a person, or animals, the dark, height, or being closed in. No matter what your fear, you can have victory over it.
I suggest that you begin by finding a scripture that will show you that God is stronger than your fear. Confess any active or passive way that you have allowed fear to control you. Work out a plan of responsible behavior, and determine in advance what your response will be to any fear object. Commit yourself to follow through with your plan.
Another prayer that has had positive results is: “Lord Jesus, I renounce the fear of (name the fear) because God has not given me a spirit of fear. I choose to live by faith in You, and I acknowledge You as the only legitimate fear object in my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.”
Don't let fear hold you back, walk in VICTORY.
September 2008
Until We Get Home
I recently attended a funeral where I heard an often repeated statement, “Well, she’s in a better place”. In this case I believe the deceased was in a “better place” – heaven - her real home. However, the person saying it was not a believer to my knowledge. I wondered what he was basing his statement on. Did he believe there was a heaven and that everyone who dies will go there? Was he just so glad that her suffering was over that he assumed anything would be better now? And why was she in a “better place”? Was it because she was a good person, kind and thoughtful? Was it because she attended church from time to time, was baptized and confirmed? Or did he say it simply because it was the thing to say at such a time?
Jesus is quoted in Matthew 7:13-14 as saying, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life and only a few find it.” I do believe that the person who died had passed from this life to her eternal home in heaven, and is truly in a “better place”. I believe this because she had realized she was a sinner and had repented of her sins, “That if you confess with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord’, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” (Romans 10:9)
I am praying for this man. I am praying that he will choose the small gate, the narrow road. The richest treasures are often discovered in the deepest holes. While he is grieving, I am believing that he will realize that he can’t change what happened, but by God’s grace, he can change. He can come through this crisis a better person, a person who knows that the Lord is preparing a place for him in heaven, a better place (John 14:1-6).
Funerals have a way of helping us reflect on where we are and where we are going. Just two weeks prior to this funeral, I attended the (funeral) celebration of Bert Linder’s life. Anyone saying “he’s in a better place” that day, knew that he was home with his Savior. His life reflected his love for Jesus and he experienced joy in his days on earth, even during difficult times. Jesus said, “…I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (John 10:10)
Is there joy in your life? Are you looking forward to your real home? Jesus came to die for our sins so that we can have eternal life. However, he also wants us to enjoy our life here on earth until we get home. If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, addictive behavior, co-dependency, anything that is keeping you from experiencing the joy He wants for you, consider being part of Celebrate Recovery. He wants us to walk in freedom and share the good news of eternal life with others. Have a great month rejoicing in the blessings you have here on Earth and excited about someday going home to be with Him forever.
August 2008
Who Does God Say I Am?
I hear people saying how their spouse, family member or friend made them feel. Perhaps you have heard or maybe even said something like this: “He puts me down all the time and makes me cry.” Or “She hurt my feelings when she said I’m lazy.” Or “He avoids me, doesn’t talk to me, but if he does he yells and calls me names.” If I know nothing else, I do know that the devil is a liar and wants nothing more than to see relationships destroyed and Christians not experiencing the joy the Lord intended for them. Jesus is quoted, when referring to the devil, in John 8:44 “…for he is a liar and the father of it.”
Our identity is not found in what someone else thinks of us, our job title, being a husband, wife, parent, son or daughter. Our identity is found in who the Lord says we are if we have received Christ as our Savior. When we allow our feelings to be hurt and take on labels someone gives us, we are forgetting what God has said in His Word about us. If we have felt rejected or unloved, we need to remember that, in Christ, we are completely accepted. His Word says, “I am God’s child” (John 1:12),” I have been bought with a price: I belong to God” (1 Corinthians 6:19,20) “I have been redeemed and forgiven of all my sins” (Colossians 1:14) “I am complete in Christ” (Colossians 2:10)
If we begin to believe the lie that we are unprotected, alone or abandoned, we must remember that we are totally secure for God says, ”I am free forever from condemnation” (Romans 8:1,2 “I am free from any condemning charges against me” (Romans 8:31-34) “I am born of God and the evil one cannot touch me.” (1 John 5:18) “I have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7)
If we are told that we are worthless, inadequate, helpless or hopeless, we find that in Christ we are deeply significant. God says…”I am the salt of the earth and the light of the world.” (Matthew 5:13,14) “I am a temple of God.” (1 Corinthians 3:16) “I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realm.” (Ephesians 2:6) “I am God’s workmanship, created for good works” (Ephesians 2:10) and “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!” (Philippians 4:13)
Don’t allow the devil to lie to you through someone else. If someone is putting you down, don’t take the remarks personally, remember that the devil is lying to you and be encouraged by what God has to say about you. You do not have control over what someone says to you, but you can control how you deal with what is said.
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